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Carina	10th December 2005 - 12:46 am
	Just because she's losing my father, she thinks she's losing me and she thinks I'm becoming some kind of insane rebel. She thinks I'm smoking, injecting drugs, having sex,meeting online boyfriends, and all that stuff. I'm not! And when I say so, she just keeps on nagging me until I have to yell. Then she starts crying and says she's losing me. She's SO annoying. I'm not doing any of those things!

Carina	10th December 2005 - 12:47 am
	She even got a knife and threatened me to kill herself if I didn't tell her the 'truth'.

Echoia	10th December 2005 - 12:50 am
	Your parents are splitting up? A lot of people can NOT handle breakups. It is unfortunate but it can be very dangerous for them. If your mom can't get a handle she could end up needing some very serious help very soon, Carina : (

Anna	10th December 2005 - 12:56 am
	I feel so sorry for you Carina. But try to understand your mom -I know is hard- and smile more. You're such a stronge girl, you'll know how to act <3

Manda	10th December 2005 - 01:41 am
	carina, i know what you're going through unfortunately =\ My life is not even funny its completely screwed up. I wish i could talk to someone, but i don't know that anyone would understand. Family problems, financial problems, school. I can't handle it, it brings deep depression upon me. Then.. i start wishing death upon myself hating my life.. gah its hard. It's not easy covering up =/ I don't know your situation completely or whose fault it is. But i know that somehow things will work out for the best Sometimes all you have is faith, but it can be a powerful thing.

Mattness	17th December 2005 - 09:16 pm
	Ah now that sounds really bad. I dont really think you can totally blame your mom if shes going through alot, though. People do thinks that are not 'them' when they have to go through stuff, you know. I think, even if its not easy, try and be nice to her. Of course, I dont know your situation nor how you feel.. but I agree with Echo, 'a lot of people can not handle breakups'.. you have to try and understand (not meant to offend), even if its hard. We'll all be here for ya!!

Lisette	15th January 2006 - 08:10 pm
	Poor Carina =[ Don't be afraid to just come to us, when you're feeling bad. Sometimes it;s easier to talk to people you don't know very well.. I didn't know anybody who's parents were divorced, until last year. The girl couldn't handle it at all (which is normal afcourse), she had several panic atacks cause of it..

Linda	15th January 2006 - 10:16 pm
	That must be terrible for you and your mum :( I never went through anything like that but I do remember when I was younger I never expected my parents to be real people, they were always right and always knew what to do and could handle anything you know? But they're not and I can imagine losing your husband would not be an easy thing to handle. I guess you just have to be patient with her and tell her every day that you love her and show that you're a good girl. Hope things get better.

Rick	16th January 2006 - 03:05 pm
	*Hugs* for Carina if she's worried about you she must feel very lonely. Thinking that she'll loose you to, leaves her with nothing at all. Be caring in her time of need, after all she was there for you. She raised you, she was up all nite when you were little, now a burden falls on your young shoulders and it's not easy for you to handle. The day will come when this will pass, it's that time in the middle that's so hard to deal with. I hope the best for you and your mom, now go... go and give her a big hug and tell her what she wants to hear. I send a big *Hug* for both of you! And remember one day you might need her strength again, may that day never come. It was the right thing to do, sharing your personal life with others.

bullyboop	09th February 2006 - 03:38 pm
	That's terrible... My home life is pretty screwed up too. In fact things have gotten so bad recently it pains me to talk about it... ;_; I hope you sort things out. I'll pray for you and your mum. I'm not religeous, but it can't hurt.... <3

volova	23rd February 2006 - 08:55 pm
	My mum behaved in a similar way when I was the teenager too. It irritated me and then and now. Probably your mum and u are not close enough. Mum worries, that cant help you to find your place in a life. It will pass when you will have your own family, good work or achievementor. Be indulgently to her. Try to present her vexel from her favorite photo. Let it becomes a first step to be clother.

cait	17th March 2006 - 08:13 pm
	aww :( im sorry carina i hope everything turns out well!! stay strong!! we're here for you if you need neone to talk to :)

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